I must be getting old. I’m no longer enthusiastic about dating or becoming emotionally involved with a man. Dating is just too much work.
I have to force myself to be sociable to the guy that has little conversation but plenty of ego. Men have forgotten how to romance a woman and how to keep her interested. It’s almost as if they’re afraid to say anything because you might think they actually have an opinion about something.
I’m not a mean or unlikable person, and most people find me very easy to talk to; it’s just that the bottom line is always sex along with the date, and he “definitely” has no trouble expressing that.
It appears to me that a female can’t go out and have a good time without the male bringing up sex and saying something like “would you like to go home with me for a massage?” If I want a massage; I’ll ask him if he gives me the chance to.
Whatever happened to going out, having a nice time, laughing, talking, and saying goodnight at the door? People don’t want to savor the good times; they think they have to consummate the date with sex in order for it to be a worthwhile evening out on the town.
I’m sure it must be a turn off to a lot of the more matured women when a man always approaches her about the bedroom and what he would like to do when he gets her there. Well, my Mother always said, “If a man has to talk about it so much then he probably couldn’t do too much once he got you there.”
It’s hard for a woman to have little feline encounters, without the man she’s flirting with thinking she wants to get in-between the sheets. Back in the day; flirting use to be a harmless healthy sport played without deadly consequences. Women winked and blinked and never thought about having a near death experience. Today it’s dangerous for a woman to engage in harmless flirtations. Now the more responsible woman is holding back and trying to play it safe, so she won’t be sorry.
bevsangle 