Maybe that hard earned dollar has something to do with males thinking they should be allowed to have sex on the first date. If he buys you dinner; you’re his for the night, is the thought pattern behind most date processes. One night stand sure has taken on a whole new meaning. Guess what? So many females sell themselves short because they let the guy take them to bed and all he’s done is buy them a few drinks and followed them home in their car. Does he respect them? Will he call again because he wants to get to know her better…maybe? Why buy the cow if you can get the milk free? Giving up easily will make you the chaser and him the chasee.
No such luck here, baby. A guy has got to do a lot more than spend a couple of bucks before I even consider the notion of having sex with him. For starters, he has got to have more going for himself than his penis. I mean, I want to know if he knows anything about current events….and what makes the world go around. I hope you read me correctly. I said having sex with him, because that’s all it would be at that point.
When we start to talk about love then we’re entering a whole new territory that is about as misunderstood, vague, and ambiguous as some of the other things that are going on today in the realm of real versus make believe I love you.
I sometimes wonder if men think they have to say something about sex in order to make themselves look or feel macho. I’m sure there are some men out there that take as much pride in their bodies as some women. I mean, why jump in the sack with someone you hardly know? AIDS is a killer, an equal opportunity destroyer; and from what I’ve heard, venereal diseases or STDs are still on the rise, so I tend to be more than careful about this dating business.
And that’s exactly what it’s gotten to be; a business of sorts. You sort them out according to what they can do for you materially, physically, mentally, and spiritually.
Yes, men and women are going Dutch. She can even ask him out, pick him up, and spend the night at his place, without him even opening the car door for her.
bevsangle 